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Wendy, a veteran online dater from the tri-state area concurs.
“It sounds stupid and elementary,” she says, “but it shocks me how many guys—especially the ones in their 20s—don’t fully read the profile.
Stand out from the crowd, rather than drowning the reader in cliché. Talk about actual interests: sports, books, art, music, films. Similarly, don't tell us you've got a good sense of humour – generally, people who have to say they do, don't. Keep it light, keep it funny, keep it confident (but not arrogant). On a similar note, make sure it's not a weird photo.
Of course you're a good friend, of course you like to have fun. Describe your best features (but try not to boast). Obviously this means different things for different things, but a few pointers: if you're a man, flexing your biceps and/or posing topless is not as sexy as you may think it is; if you're a woman, try not to be overly posed.
And yet, it’s a common enough gambit that gets would-be daters shot down on a regular basis.) So, don’t be distracted.
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